...intro

For many years I have thought about starting a personal blog. I rant and rave and talk enough shit to. I find myself always talking about when something is "blog worthy", but distractions are a powerful thing. Having the internet is a motherfucker when one is trying to do anything ESPECIALLY write. I guess I will be all cliche and shit and take the time to let u all know who the fuck I am. I am simply Netty. A simple being assumed to be complex by all others. I am a mother to many but I gave birth to just one. Very sexual, yet almost always celibate. Just because I get pussy, it doesn't mean I give it up. It has been 3 years since I have. I love to smile and make you smile. I love a good laugh and am always on my toes with a joke or two to share that laughter. My sarcasm is mean. very mean. I dont know what it is I cant help it. Its not that I intentionally wanna be mean but dumb people do that to me...they dig deep and take the asshole out of me. I can't hold my tongue...I really can't. People need to be told the truth about themselves. Fuck that shit. I love the friends of mine that give it to me raw. No Vaseline, just put it the fuck on me. Do not sugar coat shit for me because I will not sugarcoat a thing for you. I refuse to lose sleep over something I wish I would have said. Trust me I will say it. I do not ever seek revenge on those who do me wrong because I find it a weakness. I cannot allow anyone to get into my head enough for me to sit around and think of ways to torment you, I keep it moving. I do not wish ill on anyone either because I refuse to cloud my head with negativity, that is then what I will get in return. I can truly say I am a blessed being. I'm in love with the idea of enjoying life to the fullest no matter what path it takes us to get there and the obstacles that we all must encounter. I learn so much from so many different sources every single day because my mind is always open. I am me due to my past, I embrace it but I refuse to live in it. I have been accused of thinking myself high n mighty and I laughed and corrected, I know I am. I have lived. I was young, I mean who doesnt have that same old sad song bla bla bla. Ive enjoyed the fuck out of my life tho. I have worked hard and partied even harder. way harder. But I did grow up and out of those childish ways and became the me that I am totally in love with. I can be honest and admit my growing up and dare I say enlightening moment all came with my first broken heart. I was never ever a bad person, not intentionally at least, but my heart was never truly open until that time in my life. All of my friends have each come to me with several broken hearts. And I never really understood I just offered a dose of strength and "reality" as I saw it at least. It physically took over me, made me sick to my stomach and I lost a quick 20 lbs, tho I needed it ..totally isnt the point LOL but I never let it show. I wrote and wrote myself into healing. I mean they say that the first one is the hardest so I figured I had to tough it the fuck out and be grown the fuck up and I did and moved on. Knowing what it felt like changed my perpesctive on how I lived prior and the broken hearts I left behind. Today at 29 I am the person I respect the most in every sense of that word. I wish I could share a little part of me with everyone and make the world that much better of a place hahahaha :) I love my friends, they are my family and I defend them as such. I have friends that go back to Kindergarten and remain close to all my childhood bestfriends. I have a 12 year old that is the most amazing little girl ever. I am convinced that she is the perfect child for me, and if I was to have ever dreamed what I wanted my child to be it would be her. When I bring people into my circle I think of her, if I bring negativity into my life it brings it into hers. If anyone thinks I am brutally honest, they change that perception after meeting her, she takes the cake. I am still working on that with her no tact self , she is a Sagittarius she can't help it LoL I am into astrology because I enjoy it plain and simple. I can read all day and I mean ALL DAY. I loooove to read and used to get in trouble for staying up all night with a flashlight reading. I am a bartender and I LOVE my job. I love what I do, I love making people happy and liquor makes people happy and my charming personality of course does too! I curse A LOT like A LOT. I dabble in makeup on the side and have met some amazing people and might consider going into theater makeup with animals and monsters etc the transformations are so gratifying! I have ADD, like really bad..I end up starting mad things at once, but I am steady working on it and pot totally helps ;) Since I was 16 I have worked 2 jobs at almost all times sometimes 3, at one time 4. Its the Capricorn in me I guess, or necessity! I have never been on welfare. EVER and I had my child at 16, I am very proud of that. I have taken care of all my siblings at some point of my life, a lot of cousins and damn near the whole hood. Out of nature I have always been the nurturer I never really had. I do not care who I offend when it comes to truth, if truth hurts u shouldn't be doing it. I am not a fan of lies or liars and can never remember a lie so I steer clear of doing so. I am not THAT smart, but I am an avid seeker of wisdom. I consider myself an awesome parent and work very hard on being just that. I feel everyone who is allowed into my world should consider themselves lucky...but the luckiest should be the ones I allow to stay :) I will rant I will rave I will have lots of shit to talk..u can read it or not but please do check your feelings at the door because they don't sell sugar in my hood homie :)